Give a gift of kindness this festive season by helping those in need

Looking back on 2021, it has been another tough year for people everywhere.

Here, we have been continuing to adapt our advice service to meet the challenges of the Covid-19 pandemic whilst helping Portsmouth residents find a way forward with their issues.

Now, as thoughts everywhere are racing towards a hopefully 'normal' Yuletide, it will, for many people, still feel very different this year. Many are also likely to be worried about the financial strain that Christmas can impart. Let's try, however, to make the very best of the season and the things we can still enjoy.

Here are some heart-warming inspirations and practical tips to avoid the season's pitfalls and to share some goodwill:

It is people we have missed the most this year. Focus on appreciating those we love and all we have; spend quality time with those we can be with and find unique ways to still celebrate with those we cannot.

The thought counts. There are many ways to show we care without spending lots of money. Give thoughtful presents, your time and effort. Handmade vouchers or IOUs can be given, to be redeemed for all manner of favours. Bake a cake, make sweets or a festive chutney to give as gifts. Make a CD of favourite songs or frame a treasured photograph. Create a photo book of times shared (online) or make your own handwritten scrapbook with keepsakes. Recycle unused gifts or donate them, or even pass down an heirloom.

Do what you can, with what you have. There are often temptations and unspoken pressures forcing us to overspend. If you are concerned about money, scale things right down, set an affordable budget and come January you will be glad you did. Even suggest a more frugal approach for everyone this year.

One gift is enough. Resist the temptation to 'top up' and buy more than is necessary. If you feel you must give something extra, limit second gifts to something homemade for a personal touch.

Gratitude. Avoid unnecessary gifting where a sincere 'thank you' is enough. A heartfelt note: to teachers, sitters, a colleague, or hairdresser, is more meaningful than a novelty item.

Home alone. If there is a chance you could be isolated over Christmas, ensure you have support arranged ahead of time. Make use of good friends, close neighbours and volunteer support services. If you know someone who is going to be isolated, remember to check on them regularly and offer help if you can.

Sharing is caring. Help a charity with food and warm clothing donations. Support a local business by buying from them and get involved with community initiatives, such as a Shoe Box gift appeal or a Beach Clean. And be kind, always.

Don't forget, we are still here for everyone, whatever the problem.

With our warmest Christmas wishes,

Citizens Advice Portsmouth